As a child, I was determined to become a doctor. No, my parents never planted that thought in my head. I still remember that day in my third grade class when my teacher asked us to draw what we wanted to become when we grew up and I drew a girl in a white coat with a stethoscope hanging around her neck. I also clearly remember being very happy drawing that and knew in my heart there was a very very good chance I would become one because I always wanted to help people, save lives and service humanity. Up until the tenth grade, Biology was my favorite subject after Math. Number 3 spot was shared by Physics and Chemistry.
In the Indian school system, after the tenth grade exams, you graduate from school and enter what we call “Junior College” which is 2 years of education before picking your undergrad major. I did really well in my exams and scored 97% in Biology and overall an A grade in my marksheet which gave me the luxury of picking the college I wanted.
After a lot of thinking, I decided not to pick Biology because I could not see myself dissecting a rat or a bird. At first I was a bit disappointed in myself but then soon I realized that there were many other ways to help people, save lives and serve humanity.Then after my twelfth grade exams, I wanted to study aeronautics/astronomy. I really did. If you remember, in one my earlier posts on the moon, I mentioned that I have always been fascinated by the moon and ET space itself. This time, it also seemed doable. There was nothing I could think of as a hindrance in achieving this dream. I forgot 2 things:
- There wasn’t at that time, any university which offered a good (if any) program for astronomy or aeronautics in India.
- My parents were not going to let their 18 year old go all the way to the US to get a degree in a field for which they saw no job possibilities back in India.
So there I was, trying so hard to convince my parents to send me to Georgia Tech, one of the top 3 universities at that time for this program. In the end, it was 2 against 1 and I conceded to my parents’ wishes. That’s an Indian cultural thing, especially for daughters.
Finally I chose telecommunications and became an engineer and today I absolutely love what I am doing
No regrets, no disappointments.
What occupation did you want as a child?


